
Over the years, I’ve seen talented people at all levels struggle—not because they weren’t good at their jobs, but because they didn’t value trust and collaboration. Lately, I’ve noticed more conversations popping up about layoffs being labeled as “performance management,” and it feels like the right time to separate that from something entirely different: when a lack of collaboration and resistance to feedback actually does lead to performance issues.
This isn’t just a leadership issue or a HR issue or a marketing issue—it’s a workplace issue across industries and functions. No matter your function, trust and collaboration define how well you succeed. Much of your job performance is dependent on how well you collaborate, accept feedback, and respect the expertise of those around you. Yet, one of the quickest ways to derail your career is to resist input, isolate yourself from your team, and undervalue the contributions of others.
When Confidence Becomes a Liability
Experience and confidence are valuable assets. Confidence is a valuable asset. It helps us advocate for ideas, take ownership of our work, and push projects forward. But unchecked confidence—when it turns into an unwillingness to ask for help, accept constructive criticism, or acknowledge gaps in our skillset—can quickly become a liability.
Here’s the reality: No one is great at everything. The best professionals know this and either actively seek out experts in areas where they don’t excel, or are willing to defer and accept help from others on their team. Why? They understand work quality matters—whether it’s a blog post, an ad, a social media campaign, a client pitch or customer deliverable. When you ignore expertise, dismiss the importance of craft, or operate in isolation, you don’t just weaken your own performance—you risk eroding trust and credibility with peers, leaders, and clients/customers.
The Ripple Effect of Poor Collaboration
When people refuse to collaborate, the impact extends far beyond their individual workload:
- Missed deadlines & dropped balls: Without communication and transparency, deadlines slip, and projects suffer.
- Fractured client relationships: Clients and customers notice when work isn’t up to par. If they repeatedly request a change in personnel or rework, it’s a signal that something isn’t working.
- Team frustration & lost trust: A refusal to share information or accept feedback doesn’t go unnoticed. It breeds frustration among colleagues and leaders, leading to strained relationships.
- Reputation damage: Over time, this behavior becomes a pattern—and reputations are built (or broken) on patterns.
Why Being Coachable Matters
The best professionals, regardless of industry or seniority, share a common trait: they are coachable. Being coachable doesn’t mean you’re inexperienced or lacking skills; it means you are open to feedback, willing to adapt, and recognize that learning is an ongoing process.
People who excel in their careers do three things exceptionally well:
1. They seek input – They ask for help before things go sideways. They value expertise and understand that collaboration makes work stronger.
2. They communicate openly –
Instead of hoarding information or working in silos, they share updates, keep teams informed, and proactively address challenges.
3. They own their impact – When feedback comes their way—whether from a client, a peer, or a leader—they listen, reflect, and adjust rather than disregarding it or getting defensive. People who excel in their careers do three things exceptionally well:
When Misalignment Becomes a Liability
Not all performance challenges are the same. Recently, Microsoft revised its performance management strategy, implementing stricter evaluations that led to the departure of nearly 2,000 employees identified as low performers. This kind of approach—where employees are let go with little lead-up or no notice—is not what we’re talking about here. Sudden layoffs under the guise of "performance" without prior feedback or coaching aren’t just unfair to employees; they’re a poor substitute for actual performance management and damaging to employer brands.
What is the issue? The real challenge arises when leaders and peers do provide ongoing feedback and opportunities for collaboration, but an employee actively resists engaging. When someone refuses to share work with their team before it goes to clients or leadership, disregards the importance of quality, or simply doesn’t value their role in the same way the organization does, it becomes a deeper issue: misalignment.
A Real-World Example of the Impact of Ignoring Feedback
Consider the case of Gail, a professional who brought forward a well-thought-out initiative, hoping for constructive feedback. Instead, she was met with indifference and skepticism from leadership. The lack of acknowledgment left her disengaged, hesitant to share future ideas, and ultimately led her to leave in search of a workplace where her contributions were valued.
Now, flip that scenario. Imagine an employee who actively rejects feedback—not because their team won’t provide it, or because leadership isn’t receptive, but because they don’t believe they need to adjust, improve, or collaborate. Over time, these behaviors—and that hubris—affect more than just their own work; they erode trust, damage relationships, and, in some cases, put entire teams and business relationships at risk.
Alignment Matters More Than Talent
This isn’t about whether someone is talented. You can be highly skilled and still struggle in an organization if you’re unwilling to align with its values, processes, and expectations. The most successful professionals aren’t just good at what they do; they are coachable, collaborative, and capable of seeing the bigger picture.
No one is above accountability—not individual contributors, not leaders, and certainly not teams. If feedback is consistently ignored and collaboration is avoided, the outcome is inevitable: your peers, your leaders, and your clients will take notice.
The question is: Are you building bridges in your career, or burning them? Because trust—once broken—is rarely rebuilt. Now, flip that scenario. Imagine an employee who actively rejects feedback—not because their team won’t provide it, or because leadership isn’t receptive, but because they don’t believe they need to adjust, improve, or collaborate. Over time, these behaviors—and that hubris—affect more than just their own work; they erode trust, damage relationships, and, in some cases, put entire teams and business relationships at risk.
Protecting Your Career (and Your Company)
No company succeeds without teamwork. No leader has all the answers. And no individual contributor is immune to the consequences of poor collaboration. If you consistently dismiss feedback, ignore deadlines, or undervalue the importance of quality work, your peers and leaders will take notice. And so will your clients.
A career isn’t built on how much you produce—it’s built on how well you execute, collaborate, and grow. Those who thrive aren’t just good at what they do; they make the people around them better.
So, ask yourself: Are you building bridges with your team and leaders—or burning them? Because in the end, your relationships and reputation are your greatest assets. Protect them—because trust is the foundation for lasting success and meaningful relationships.
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